How To Meet Asian Women Online – Part Two
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How To Meet Asian Women Online – Part Two:The Profile

Even if you already know a lot about online dating, reviewing this section is recommended as preparation and it can secure you from mistakes that could cost you a fantastic date with an amazing Asian woman.

The Profile: Important pointsHow to meet Asian women online

Transparency in who you are and what you want is your top priority. Here we designed a customized guide for you to build your profile and create an image that reflects your true inner character. Here are some points you should consider while building your profile:

1. Search yourself: Who are you and what do you want?

Remember, if you want to court an Asian woman you have to be direct and confident!

You can start by Googling your name and see what you find because she will do it at some point any way. If you do show up on Google, make sure you don’t build an online dating profile that contracts your public profile.

The truth is that most men aren’t used to talking about themselves, and In daily life, we are rarely called upon to list our strengths or detail our accomplishments. Because of this many people miss some of their best qualities in their profile; try not to miss your best qualities. You can ask relatives or close friends to tell you some of the good qualities about you that you didn’t even know yourself.

2. Take the time to put original thinking into your profile

You can read other profiles to get ideas but be sure that you write an original profile that depicts your character in the honest yet desirable way. If your profile is too short, generic, and impersonal, or badly written and loaded with unnecessary stuff, it is likely that girls will ignore you. Remember that girls on online dating sites receive a lot of messages. If you don’t stand out of the crowd, you’re putting yourself at a huge disadvantage.

3. Choose a catchy screen name and heading

Try not to choose a screen name that exposes you as a ‘not caring’ personality, like “Andy1234”. Try to find a screen name which is creative, bears a sense of humor, carries a meaning and is not light-hearted. Put your passion into it and try it to be free from Asian related words such as “AsianLover”. Same goes with headings and short descriptions. You should avoid common generic phrases like “searching for my soul-mate” or “seeking my Asian princess”. There is nothing wrong with them but they are not original nor creative. You can use your hobbies for instance to create a catchy screen name or description.

4. Make sure you include at least one photoHow to meet Asian women online - good profile picture

It is recommend that you post a minimum of two photos. Pick pictures that represent you well. Pictures that depict you engaged in an activity are good as they put your personality on display. Variety in pictures is directly linked with the number of viewing. You can also show off some creativity with your pictures.

Caution: Don’t be a show off. If you have a ripped athletic body or some cool body tattoos, don’t blatantly show them off in shirtless selfies. Try to make it more subtle, such as picture that features you engaged in a sport of some sort. For example, if you love to play golf, throw in a picture of you in a epic golf pose.

Remember to upload recent photos, you may get away with a few years but a picture that is different from you can be a wet blanket when she meets you for the first time.

5. Make sure your profile description has plenty of useful information

Help your potential Asian soulmate identify what you like and dislike, your personal beliefs, your strengths and weaknesses, your traits and your qualities. It’s a good idea to add facts that can support your words. Asian girls normally need more facts than girls from your own ethnic group to trust you. If you love travel, talk about your latest travels and add a relevant picture to your profile and try to talk a little bit about the picture. Take time to generously discuss your favorite books, music, cuisine, websites, locations, movies, etc. If there are negative sides with your character that you are planning to improve, adding them might actually improve your image as an honest person. Feel free to brag about yourself a little bit but don’t overdo it and never ever try to pretend to be someone else. In general avoid exaggeration and inconsistency.

6- Be clear about your relationship requirements to prevent misunderstanding

Many Asian immigrants may date with an aim to marry, even if for whatever reason they don’t mention it clearly in their profile. If you have something else in mind and you are confident about it, be clear and upfront and mention it in your own profile.

7- Nothing can make dating your Asian girl more perfect than a sense of fairy tale romanceHow to meet Asian women online - romance

Add some creativity to your first date. Be romantic in the location and activity that you choose. It can be centered around nature, sports, art, etc. Asian woman can be a little difficult to win over, but once you do they will extremely loyal and loving. You just have to sweep them off your feet.

8- Read the part one of this series again

After writing your profile, go back and read part one of this series again. Try to customize and improve your profile accordingly, and try to find opportunities where you can show how you appreciate Asian culture and values. Just don’t put any unrealistic or disingenuous information.

9- Share your profile with friends and ask for advice and comments.

Having an Asian friend can be a good resource for this step. They can look over your profile and give you a unique perspective on whether or not it will be effective in meeting Asian women online or not.

In part 3, we’ll explore some tips on how to message and communicate effectively in the world of online dating.

Click here to read Part Two: Effective Messaging and Communication

How to Meet Asian Women Online – Part One
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Part One: Lessons and Tips From Asian Culture

The Asian community, like other communities, is represented by all manners of life such as different levels of education (although education is typically the priority), religion (mostly non-religious, but also Buddhist and Christian), immigrant and native-born, etc. Many different Asian ethnic groups, each with their own language and dialect, have spread throughout most, if not all Western countries like The United States, The United Kingdom, Canada, etc.

Asian heritage is old, rich and shares a common culture and value system that rings true with many other cultures. But what you have to remember is that there are differences in details and details sometimes become the most important. Missing a single detail can cost you the Asian woman of your dreams. In this article, we have categorized the 7 most important points you should know in order to maximize your chances of meeting Asian women online.

Number 1: Values and cultureHow to meet an Asian woman online - Learn Asian Culture

Asian culture is easy to appreciate as it has many interesting beliefs, traditions, music, cuisine, movies, arts, and history. Mutual cultural appreciation is important. The Asian cultural etiquette (Chinese, Vietnamese, Thai, Philippine, etc.) can sometimes be significantly different from the customs of the western way of living.

Here are a few interesting cultural customs:

  • They respect the home by taking off their shoes in their house. If you could make it with shoes inside, don’t even try to get on the bed with shoes on.
  • They learn to use chopsticks sometimes even before they lean to speak, so these utensils can be a good source for bonding you together! Learn it!
  • Having a baby son makes them proud. When the baby is a boy, Asian parents act like they have won a lottery.

Family, honor, hard work, and education are among the top values in Asian communities that will also be reflected in romantic relationships and dating. And remember that their hard work includes working on relationships as well as household management.

Asian women are like Western women in that they want the best for themselves, meaning you have to show her that you are the best that she can get. Show her that you care about values and culture, and that you understand the importance of mutual cultural appreciation. Help her to appreciate a taste of culture from your side.

When it comes to relationships, values that Asian girls and women pursue are not very different from women of other ethnic groups. This is the result of a comprehensive interview carried out in Hong Kong on relationship choice and good sex life [1]:

On choosing a relationship:

How to meet an Asian woman online - RespectMost respondents said that partners who ‘understands me’ and ‘respects me’ are the most important considerations in an intimate relationship.

Other factors are as follows:

  • Mutual respect and mutual understanding: %95.9:
  • Kindness and good heart: %31.6
  • Cheerfulness: %28
  • Responsible: %25.8
  • Career prospects: %20.6
  • Financial status: %3.2

On how respondents described a good sex life, the factors were as follows:

  • Mutual satisfaction in general and all aspects: %34.4
  • Sense of emotional love and understanding: %26.6
  • Compatibility: %12.9
  • Orgasm: %3.4

As Asian women’s abilities and opportunities to be financially independent increase, the qualities they desire in a relationship shift towards the non-material and the emotional.

Number 2: Asian women are considerate but not necessarily submissive

Don’t expect every Asian woman to be passive and submissive. Passive and subservient types of women and men exist but few Asian women still keep that tradition (back in their own country). Many Asian women today are ambitious and fight every day to get their way in this modern era. Additionally, Asians born in a western country tend to take take on the stereotypical traits or Western women.

In Asian countries, times have been changing for women, and new gender identities and sexual lifestyles are emerging. Women are active agents in these processes, individually and collectively involved in renegotiating and reshaping their daily lives and they have they own ideas of what it means to be modern [1].

So if an Asian woman seems to be acting passive or submission, don’t assume necessarily assume that she cannot also be assertive and direct. Asian women are raised to be highly polite and considerate, which are the manners they display, but that doesn’t define who they are as a person.How to meet an Asian woman online - Polite women

Number 3: Social image

Asians including Asian girls are very concerned about social image and status. If you have a collage degree or any certificate, then it’s not a time for being modest. You should also expect that they will show off their relationship in public and among friends. Many Asian girls prefer to date guys that look good both on paper and real life.

Try to show off your assets in a way that’s not arrogant. Let your prospective Asian soul-mate know why she should choose you, but stay humble about your achievements and don’t ever make her feel stupid or inferior compared to you.

Number 4: English as a second language

Except for in the Philippines, Asian women are not likely to be fluent in English. It might be their second language, especially if they have recently immigrated. The point to keep in mind here is that if she misspells or mishears a word, be considerate not to make it a deal as it can turn into a point of insecurity and discomfort for her. If you’re extremely particular about flawless English grammar and pronunciation, Asian women may not be for you.

This also becomes important when you try to be humorous, sarcastic or when you try making her smile by telling her a joke. Try to analyze her level of understanding and then find a joke that she really can understand. Don’t assume she is as familiar with common phrases and sayings as you are. And try to take it easy on the puns. In order to see the humor in puns, it require a fairly deep understanding of any language.

Number 5: Watch for the cultural codes of romance

Every single Asian ethnic community has different views of dating and marriage. Of course you can see most of the information you need in profiles, but even if they claim they don’t seek marriage or a serious relationship, it doesn’t mean it’s not their priority. Besides, different ethnic groups from Asian community have specific traditions and cultural codes on relationships and marriage. For instance:

  • In Chinese wedding traditions, the groom pays for the wedding.How to meet an Asian woman online - romance
  • Some Asian girls (common in Chinese culture) that intend to get married keep the natural shape of eyebrows as a sign.
  • In most cases, physical intimacy develops slowly as Asian girls like to learn about your patterns and behaviors.
  • It’s not unusual for girls and women to confess their feelings to men.
  • Many Asian girls are under pressure from their families to get married.

Throughout numerous interviews with girls and women from different occupations and social groups in China, interviewers found that most of them share the point of view that love and sex are not separable.

They say that when you are emotionally connected with the person, sex is pleasurable; if the emotional connection is lacking, sex is not good. Sexual intercourse with a person you don’t love feels like being raped [1].

As always however, there are exceptions to every rule. Here is a quote from a woman who has had different sexual partners held that sex and love are completely separable:

“I met a man and did it several times; now I almost couldn’t leave him physically. He took this easy. I felt that he was inspirational to my sexuality. I had orgasm with him every time. Ever since the encounters with him, I have had good feelings towards having sex. So I feel that sex and emotional love are separable. I feel grateful to him because he helped me build up a healthy attitude towards sexuality.”[1]

Although western lifestyle has been gradually influencing Asian lifestyles, specifically for newer generations, in general you need to know that the door to modern life is not completely open in Asian cultures. This is especially true when it comes to sexuality being separate from love, reproduction and motherhood (i.e., for fun)[2].

The rule of ‘individual people own individual mentalities’ exists and statistics show that Asian women are much more likely to be living with a man who is White, Black, or Latino, compared to Asian men living with women who are White, Block, Latino, etc. Additionally, there are a a growing number of unmarried Asian women who are living with members of the opposite sex[2].

If you have a strict point of view over marriage, be sure you put it in somewhere in your profile. Remember that not all Asian women are the same. Most may want to get married eventually, but some may not. Focus your energy on Asian girls who think the way you think, and share a similar level of sensitivity.

Number 6: Learn a bit about Asian superstitions for funHow to meet an Asian woman online - superstition

Many Asian cultures follow different traditions and believe in superstitions (much like most cultures around the world). The mere existence of these traditions and superstitions does mean that every Asian women you talk to will practice them. But knowing a few of them won’t hurt in conversations and it can even help you to understand each other in the future. Here are some interesting samples:

  • numbers 8, 18, 13 and 168 are lucky and number 4 brings bad luck
  • A pet turtle slows down business
  • The whole Chinese Calendar-based fortune telling
  • Using scissors, washing hair and dusting on new years’ day is bad luck
  • Playing music or whistling at night brings ghosts and spirits
  • While red and yellow are good fortune colors, black brings bad fortune
  • An uncut noodle in soup will increase longevity in life
  • Chopsticks should not be stuck upright into the food as its similar to the tombstone in the graveyard
  • The whole Feng shui symbolism: Feng shui is a Chinese belief system of laws on flows of energy that exist to balance yin and yang and bring harmony to nature and its symbolism is widely used. Some symbols like the gold fish (koi), frogs, bamboo, coins, water and kites bring prosperity while some others like fire, incense, candles, stars, bring fame and so on.
  • All the rules surrounding pregnant women: Pregnant women shouldn’t cut anything in the bed, or attend funerals and weddings. They should also avoid hanging baby pictures on the wall and they are advised to do a number of things like leaving a small light on during the night or keeping a knife under the bed.
  • Don’t give clocks as a gift (specifically for Chinese) as it means separation. It’s a homophone of the Chinese word ‘the end’. The same goes for ‘sharing a pear’ as it also means ‘the end’. You can of course share a pear with your Chinese date as long as she doesn’t know you know this rule.

All cultures have superstitions and new generations use them mostly for fun. Many try to find the underlying practical origins of these superstitions. For instance whistling or playing music at night bothers neighbors. In short, they are all made for the sake of controlling and improving their society.

Number 7: The fairytale romance

Asian woman are very emotional and often crave for a fairy tale romance, so you have to dive for a deep emotional connection. Nevertheless, it’s better not to use the term ‘fairytale’ and instead just act upon it. Being kind and having a good heart is an important factor and good start (remember statistics in lesson 1).

Click here to read Part Two: Lessons and Tips for Online Dating

How to Meet Asian Women Online – Introduction
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IntroductionHow to meet Asian women online

In 2011 an Oxford University questionnaire revealed that one in three people are now using dating sites to find partners online. The reasons are clear, online dating saves time, gives more information of a specific person that may take a long time to get in normal dating, keeps anonymity, and most importantly it provides a huge desktop of alternatives.

Dating is a journey, maybe one of the most exciting journeys of life but like every other journey requires preparation otherwise it can end in inconveniences and unexpected, undesirable consequences. On this website, we intend to specifically educate you on how to meet Asian women Online, as well as offline.

If you are interested in dating an Asian girl, this website provides an original guide that can accompany you throughout this journey.

This is how we are going to do this:How to meet Asian women online

    • Beforehand we explain why you should take the time to read this e-book before creating your profile and submitting your first message.

 

    • Then we start with the first part where we give you a taste of Asian culture, what the differences are, what they expect from you and what you should expect in return. Even if you don’t intend to use online dating to get your Asian girl, we strongly suggest that you read this section.

 

    • In the second part, we give you all the necessary instructions on how to be successful in online dating. We tried to customize instructions as much as we could for your Asian tastes but you should remember that women, despite their ethnic and cultural backgrounds, all have common instincts and goals in life.

 

    • In the last part, we have listed some common mistakes guys make in online dating, again with a focus on Asian culture, to make sure that will not be the case for you!

 

The Common Myths

All right, we are good to go, but please let us point out two common myths that unfortunately are being advertised on most Asian dating sites and guidelines:

Asian girls come from another planet:

If you search other Asian dating sites and guides you may notice that there is an exaggeration about how Asian girls are different. As we explain further, there are important differences that can actually make you a winner or a loser, but they are not from another planet.

Reading this site is all you need:

Many Asian dating guides make this shallow claim that if you follow these instructions you can get whoever you want. What they try to hide is that people are individually different. We don’t want to create this false myth that reading this website will miracles make a hot Asian girl fall into your arms from the sky at some point during your online adventure.

However, we can assure you that if you use the knowledge that we share with you here you can take smart confident steps toward finding your Asian soul mate, someone who can understand you, is attracted to you, can take care of you and make you happy.

How to meet Asian women online

Why should you read this article before dating an Asian girl online?

Reason number one: the cost of being a newbie can be high

If you decide to rely on your own personal experience, it will take some time for you to find the way that ultimately gets you to your destination, probably even more that the time it takes to read this website 100 times. During this time girls come, find their match and leave the dating pond. One of them could have been your true soul mate!

Reason number two: You may hunt the wrong girl

When you start dating there will be a sense of haste that makes you go for every girl that responds, especially when you learn how to build the profile and how to send messages. This is specifically important for men who seek long-term relationships. You have to avoid following false senses and be careful of the possible pitfalls. Reading this website will allow you to have a better chance at finding someone that truly suits you, can understand you, and won’t waste your time.

Reason number three: Losing her in the middle is the worst

Starting a meaningful link with an Asian girl of your desired caliber may not be easy, but maintaining it in good shape is definitely harder. You managed to find someone who is interested in you but somehow in the middle of communication something goes wrong and you lose her in the middle of the trust making and bonding process. Read the next article to reduce your risk of this type of soul crushing heartbreak.

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How to Text a Chinese Girl You’re Dating
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Chinese woman sending textYou might already realize that text messages are extremely important when you’re dealing with women, but they’re particularly important when you’re trying to woo a Chinese woman.

Like women in most developed and developing countries, Chinese women are glued to their phones a lot of the time, and one of your best bets for getting her attention once you have her number is to shoot her a text. Alternatively, you can also use one of the several Chinese social media and messaging apps to get acquainted with new women while you’re in China. People in China love to use WeChat in particular, so get as familiar with it as possible.

Now, like with many other cross-cultural issues, there is a learning curve. As with talking in person, texting Chinese women will be different from texting Western women most of the time. Let’s take a look at some tips on how to text your potential Chinese girlfriend and not mess things up:

1) Don’t be too forward

If a Chinese girl is shy and plays hard-to-get, it’s usually not an act—her parents taught her to be suspicious of men’s intentions and to guard herself. This would be especially true if you’re a foreigner. A Western woman might be fine with you just cutting to the chase and getting immediately sexual in your conversation if she was attracted to you, but this would effectively be too overwhelming for a Chinese girl and may very well turn her off.

Even if you only plan on something casual and don’t want to get in a serious relationship, Asian girls tend to be more shy about the subject of sex, so save all of that for when you’re actually in private and in the bedroom. Don’t bring it up explicitly over text, and absolutely do not send pictures of anything under your clothes.

Further, you may be surprised that she will reject you the first time when you ask her out. This is somewhat normal thanks to her upbringing, so you might have to beat around the bush a lot more to get her comfortable before she agrees to meet you somewhere in person. It’s kind of tedious, but it’s part of the game in China. This is also why it helps to target girls who are specifically interested in dating foreigners; it may lower the “walls” just a little bit.

2) Use lots of emojisemojis

It’s kind of hard to convey tone and other factors like intention through text. Even in person, you may find Chinese girls taking a lot of your sarcastic jokes literally, so you may have to tone things down in that department to avoid a misunderstanding.

Another way to signal your intentions and emotions is to use plenty of emojis. You will probably find that she will use them, too; they are a bit more popular with people in Asian than with those in the Western world, so it will take some getting used to, but it makes a lot of sense considering that there are few other ways to convey nuance.

3) Avoid texting in Chinese if you aren’t fluent

Of course, if the girl you are talking to does not speak a lick of English, you’re much better off using your basic Chinese than taking a chance on her ability to decipher what you said, or worse, use translation software. However, if the girl speaks English, but your Chinese is not very good, just go ahead and text in English. The potential for misunderstanding is just too high if you are both not fluent in the language and also new to the culture.

Once a single bad misunderstanding has occurred, you’ve probably lost your chance with the girl, even if she later comes to realize that you meant to say something else; the awkward feelings will more than likely linger between you.

This is also a good time to mention that if you aren’t fluent, get fluent! People like to talk about how “hard” Asian languages are, but the truth is that they’re not hard, they’re just very different from Western languages. If you approach Chinese with an open mind, the way a child does when he’s learning his first language, you’ll have an easier time of it than if you were to bring all your cultural baggage from your own language.

4) Keep things simple and clear

Similar to what’s mentioned above, try to go for clarity when you’re in a situation of differing cultures. If you want to ask her out to tea and feel that she’s ready to say yes, skip the innuendos and tell her in a very literal way. Lots of Westerners have the temptation to be “clever” when they talk to girls, but this does not always translate well. Will this mean that you’ll have to tone down your “game” a little bit? Certainly, but your game will have to be different when dealing with Chinese girls anyway. Try to be more obvious and honest about the things that you say; this is something that most Chinese girls will appreciate.

5) Be discreetChinese woman texting on bench

Especially if what you’re looking for is less serious, don’t walk up to her while she’s with her friends and make obvious advances—you will be shot down. This is kind of the beauty of text in that it allows you to communicate with her discreetly and no one has to know what you’re up to. A lot of Chinese girls are attracted to foreign men, but as with most girls you will meet in any culture, they are afraid of appearing like they are “loose women” in front of their social circle. You can avoid this by just allowing her to keep the relationship secret if she wants.

These are just a few tips on getting started messaging and texting the girl you’re dating or are interested in. Obviously, the only way you can get really good a texting game with Chinese girls is through experience and practice. So download WeChat or another popular messaging app and get to work.

How to Meet Women in China – The 3 Best Ways
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Meet Women in ChinaMeeting women in general can be tough, but it can be especially difficult when there’s a language barrier and cultural barrier that keeps you from being able to access a vast social circle. Still, meeting and dating Chinese women is more than worth the effort, since they can be extremely kind and loyal companions compared to some of their Western counterparts.

That’s not to say that there’s necessarily anything wrong with Western women, it’s just that you’ll probably have a better chance of finding a long-lasting relationship if you choose to date a Chinese woman. Yes, it might be harder to find a casual hook-up in China than in the Western world where women are very “liberated” sexually, but it sort of comes with the territory; Chinese culture is still very conservative and women especially like to focus on finding a stable husband to create a stable life for themselves.

One huge concern of course, is this: If you have no social contacts in China, how are you going to be able to find a woman in the first place? Like most women, Chinese ladies prefer to be introduced by someone who has already been vetted by their friends or acquaintances. Luckily, you can bypass some of this complication in a few different ways. Let’s take a look at some different ways to meet women in China:

Day Game

Chinese Girl Taking The SubwayOne way to meet women in China is to employ some modified versions of your “day game” techniques. They have to be modified because of course you’re dealing with a different culture. One way you could do this—if you have the courage—is by simply cold approaching girls who are meandering around in parks or on the street. The malls are also not bad places to find girls to meet, but of course all of this cold approaching takes some guts and an ability to deal with the occasional (or frequent) rejection.

It helps to know some Chinese as well, but it’s not totally necessary. Just remember to tone down the aggressiveness compared to how you approach Western girls. You also want to come off as more polite, since this is not seen as a possible weakness the way it is sometimes in the West, and in fact will win you some points.

Another, probably better way to find girls during the day is to employ a little help from technology. Like any other modern culture, Chinese people love their social networking apps, and one of the most popular of these is WeChat.

Not only does it allow you to add friends and do the usual things you would expect, but you can make new friends through its geo-location capabilities. Just set up your profile, set the app to find girls near you, and you’re in business. Of course, after that you will have to go through the usual messaging process and setting up an in-person meeting. It’s advisable to meet in person as soon as possible; drop any girls who seem to just be interested in chatting a lot and keep making excuses about meeting in person, as these are certainly time-wasters. After all, you didn’t go to China to find a pen pal, did you?

Night Game

Shanghai Skyline NightAs you would expect, there are also bars and nightclubs in major Chinese cities. Your best bet in this regard is probably going to be Shanghai. This is a large city with a thriving nightlife that is generally friendly to foreigners, and it’s also full of the most single women of just about any city. Also, if you’re looking for a casual relationship or even just a one-night stand, a club or a bar is the place to find it. It’s not too different from Western culture in this regard; the girls who are just looking for adventure go to these kinds of places, and the girls who are looking for serious relationships tend to avoid them.

The only problem here is that most of the bars worth visiting will be kind of expensive, especially if you’re looking for women who are single, independent, and simply wanting to spend time with a man for the evening. Another thing to look out for is that many clubs in these major cities are full of foreign girls as well. If that doesn’t bother you, then go ahead.

Online Dating

If you simply want to use an online match-maker to find a Chinese girl to date, then you can do this also. One of the advantages here is that you don’t have to walk around town, sifting through every girl that you find interesting and getting rejected or possibly angering her boyfriend if she’s not single.

Chnlove.com Jessica Profile PicturesIn theory, every girl you meet on a dating site should be available and looking for romance, so all of this will be less of an issue. Of course, one disadvantage is that you’ll have to deal with flakes who are playing games and you’ll also be competing with a million other guys. All in all, though, since dating is a numbers game, you’re sometimes better off using a dating site since it will give you access to more women than you would ever be able to meet in person. In addition, if you choose a dating site that specifically caters to foreigners who want to meet Chinese women, then you know that your prospects are already interested in foreign men.

If you are currently in China, then push to meet the girl as soon as you can. Give her your phone number, start texting as soon as possible, and make plans to meet. The longer you wait, the more likely she is going to lose interest. Even if she seems shy at first, she is really only interested in a flesh-and-blood man, not text on a screen, so you’re going to want to have her see you that way as immediately as possible.

Ultimately, there are many ways to meet women in China, but these are probably your three best options if you’re new to the country (or are just visiting) and have no social network yet. Of course, finding a woman through your social network, or even by visiting a match-maker if it’s a wife that you want, is ideal, but sometimes you won’t have that luxury when you’re first getting to know China.

5 Tips for Dating Taiwanese Girls
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Dating a Taiwanese GirlMany people overlook Taiwan when they are thinking of East Asian territories. In the minds of many people, it gets lumped together with “China,” but the fact of the matter is that, just like many Asian cultures, Taiwanese culture is unique and particular to the area, so it is better to approach the people there with an open mind and with no assumptions that they will be the same as their mainland counterparts.

In fact, the island of Taiwan was more or less culturally isolated from the rest of the world until the advent of mass transportation, so this led to the development of unique customs and unique dialects.

However, as is the case with much of Asia, Taiwanese women make great girlfriends. Unlike many Western women, they are selfless and attentive once you have gained their trust as a boyfriend, and they tend to have a generally positive disposition.

In contrast with Asian women of other cultures, though, you may find that Taiwanese women are refreshingly proactive when it comes to building a relationship with you. Believe it or not, they will often even go to the trouble of contacting you and inviting you to outings if they like you; imagine that! The stereotypical Asian shyness can certainly be sweet, but sometimes it can get tedious when you’re trying to move forward into a romantic connection.

Keeping these differences in mind, let’s take a look at some tips in order to get the most out of your Taiwanese dating experience:

1) Remain open-minded

As mentioned, Taiwanese women are a little different from the women of other Asian territories. They can be just as thoughtful, but they are also a little more assertive with what they want. This can be both a good thing and a bad thing at first, but usually you will find that it will be in your favor. Since she’ll be less likely to hide the fact that she likes you behind a veil of games, you’re more likely to know where you stand with her. In return, be kind and open yourself; vulnerability on both sides is probably the most rewarding approach.

2) Bond through foodTaiwanese Food

It’s no secret that one of the universal languages in this world is food, and this is especially true for Taiwanese people, who love to eat just as much as Westerners do, if not more. A good way to build rapport between you and your prospective girl is to eat together, so if you’re ever wondering where you should take her out on a date, a restaurant isn’t a bad idea.

Food is also a great conversational topic that is sure to keep her interest and keep the two of you in a positive, upbeat mood. Be sure to try some of the local cuisine and expand your horizons there, too; this is a great opportunity for culture exchange and learning.

If you’re thinking of getting her a gift, and have no idea what to give her, one of the best things to default to is food. Though Asian tastes tend to run a little less sweet than those of Westerners, candy or small snack foods can certainly be a nice touch every once in awhile.

3) Exploit the social network

Decent Taiwanese girls will be wary of meeting random men at nightclubs or bars, so if you want a woman who will be girlfriend material, your best bet is to ask your social connections to keep a lookout for any eligible single women. Ask your friends to introduce you to women that they know, and this will make the whole “getting to know you” period much easier, since she will trust you more right off the bat.

4) Don’t be afraid of cultural misunderstandingTaiwanese Girl at Home

It is bound to happen that there will clashes if you’re not too familiar with the culture of Taiwan. Don’t let this scare you into a state of perpetual shyness. Accept that there will be differences, and resolve to get to know the culture as best you can. Foreigners get a certain “free pass” when it comes to some things because you’re not expected to simply know all of the customs of a country. Still, show that you are making an effort and she’ll likely be very appreciative.

5) Try to learn the local language

While having that exotic edge is great, if you plan to spend any time in Taiwan, or you’re seriously looking for a potential mate, there’s no need to limit yourself to women who only speak English. To make things easier and to reduce the amount of communication problems, try to immerse yourself in the culture and language as best you can. Any language of the Chinese family may seem hard to pick up at first to a Westerner, since they are so different from the Indo-European languages, but with some practice you will get used to it.

Again, showing effort in getting to know your girlfriend’s language and culture is likely to impress her. More importantly, if your relationship is going in a serious direction, this effort is likely to pay off hugely when it’s time to make an impression on her parents. Like the people of many Asian cultures, her parents may be a bit wary of foreigners and may question your commitment, so your taking the trouble to learn the language will be a good sign in their eyes.

So if you’re planning a trip to Taiwan or are merely considering dating Taiwanese girls as you start your search for a good girlfriend or wife, remember these tips.

More importantly, try not to worry too much about outcomes and keep yourself open to possibilities. Sure, you are looking forward to the end goal of having a date or finding a decent partner, but make sure not to limit yourself too soon, either by clinging to a specific woman too soon or by dwelling on worrisome thoughts.

The more comfortable and confident you are, the more she will mirror your attitude, so remember that, even though your cultures are different, Taiwanese women are human beings just like anyone else, and there’s no reason to be too nervous.

Where to Meet Vietnamese Girls: The 3 Best Places
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Vietnamese women can make some extremely loyal girlfriends if you know where to look for the right ones. They are not only generally very attractive women, but they are also conditioned to want to please their men, which is something that you may find to be refreshing if you’ve spent most of your life dating Western women.

If you’re not already convinced about the beauty of Vietnamese girls, just let this video run for a couple of minutes…

The culture in Vietnam is still rather traditional, so the women there are usually looking for a stable boyfriend or husband whom they can have a serious relationship with. Naturally, this doesn’t mean that all the girls are like that and that it will be impossible to find something casual, but again keep in mind that girls from Vietnam are different from Western women and even the women of other Asian cultures, and often have a more long-term view of dating.

As with any population of women though, different kinds of girls congregate in different places, so you’re going to want to know where to go to get what you’re looking for. Whether you want a one-night stand or something that will last for years, let’s take a look at a few of your options when it comes to meeting Vietnamese girls:

1) The BeachMeeting Vietnamese women at the beach

If you’re already in Vietnam, one of the best places to flex your romantic muscles and meet some girls can be at the beach. Just like in the West, it’s good to run your “day game” where people are relaxed and receptive to your casual conversations. If you’re trying to pick up strangers and get to know them, though, it’s probably best to stick to beaches more or less near big cities in the South like Ho Chi Minh City, since the more urbanized and Western-friendly girls are easier to come by and they will make you jump through fewer hoops if you’re just looking for a physical relationship. Up North, expect the girls to be more hesitant to have casual sex.

2) Clubs and Bars

You may be interested in getting laid at all costs, in which case a bar or club in Vietnam is the way to go—but you’ll often have to pay for it. Not all girls at the clubs are prostitutes, but until you’ve had a bit of experience, it may be hard for you to know at first if the girl you’re talking to is a pro or just into you for your good looks.

If you just want to have fun and don’t mind having to sift through these kinds of girls, then go ahead, but—just as you may have experienced in the West—it’s much, much harder to find a “nice girl” at a nightclub or other similar location than in, say, the halls of a University or the pews of a church.

Sure, lots of girls like to dance, but it’s all a numbers game, and if you’re looking for your future wife, the numbers are not in your favor at a club. On the other hand, you may have just come to Vietnam to have fun. If that’s the case, you can at the very least make some friends and dance with some pretty girls.

3) Online Dating

The nice thing about online dating is that you can do this even if you’re not quite ready yet for international travel. If you’re looking for something serious, and you want a reason to go to Vietnam, then you might try one of the quality Asian dating sites out there that let you meet and chat with Vietnamese women.

Just like in the West, online dating is increasingly popular in South East Asian, and there are plenty of women out there who are specifically looking for a foreign husband or boyfriend. Some women see Western men as being exotic or particularly attractive, or else they are interested in learning about Western culture and making a friend from an English-speaking country, so they join international dating sites in the hopes of meeting men like you.

Now, though you can meet quality women on dating sites, it has a few pitfalls that are similar to the club scenario. First of all, you will have to distinguish the real prospects from prostitutes. This is fairly straight-forward usually, though; once you’ve talked to a girl long enough and it doesn’t seem like she’s after any money, the problem sort of takes care of itself.

Another downside, is that these sites may be saturated by multitudes of men with similar intentions as yours, but thankfully there are usually plenty of great women to go around—and if there aren’t, then you might be on the wrong site.

Something important to note here is to also be aware of possible scammers. Just as you can expect in other Southeast Asian countries, a small minority of women in Vietnam who show interest in you are going to be actually interested in your money without any intention of even giving sex in return. If you haven’t even met her and she’s giving you a sob story about her poor auntie who is sick, then beware.

For a lot of guys, they don’t have experience saying no to beautiful women, and so they get taken advantage of. Make sure not to let your guard down too easily when you’re first taking to a new woman, and don’t let her beauty or personality blind you to any red flags that she may be all too obviously displaying.

If you meet a good woman on a dating site, she might want to take things rather slow, but be patient. As mentioned, Vietnamese women are more traditional, so try not to scare her away by getting too sexual too quickly. Keep things polite, but still try to ask all the deep questions so that you can really get to know your prospective girlfriend before you meet.

These are just a few ideas on where to meet your Vietnamese girlfriend, but honestly, the sky is the limit. Just as with any other countries, you will have to learn its unique flavor yourself and come up with your own ideas for best results.

For some extra preparation, check out this video on tips for dating a Vietnamese girl:

Where to Meet Filipinas: The 3 Best Places
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So you’ve just discovered Filipinas and are fascinated with both their culture and their potential as good girlfriends and wives. They are loyal, extremely beautiful, and in general have some of the most fluent English-language abilities of all of the South East Asians.

To make things even better, Filipino culture normally views Westerners in a very positive light, so you’ll have much less trouble being culturally accepted, and in fact, there are many Filipinas specifically interested in foreigners.

If you’re traveling through the Philippines or are planning a trip there, though, you may not be sure where to go to find the right Filipina for you. Being from a different culture, it’s common to not have the faintest clue where to go or how to best approach these women.

If you concentrate your efforts on just a few places, though, you are bound to see some results:

1) Bars and ClubsWhere to Meet Filipinas: At The Bar

If you’re from a Western country, you may be used to the idea that fertile women looking for a mate tend to congregate at bars and clubs during the weekends, and to some extent Filipina women are no different.

There are plenty of beautiful girls who love to go out and enjoy the nightlife, whether it’s at a karaoke bar or at a nightclub. If you have any experience with meeting girls at bars and clubs in the west, you may realize that these aren’t going to necessarily be the highest-quality women that you can find, so you will probably want to forgo this scene if you are looking for something deeper than just a casual romantic relationship.

Another pitfall to avoid in bars are prostitutes. If you wish to pay a woman for sex, of course that’s your business, but if you’re not looking for that kind of transaction, keep in mind that escorts will often try to recruit customers in these locations, and you may not immediately realize that they are looking for money.

To avoid being in this awkward situation, make friends with some locals and find out which of the nightclubs are normally filled with prostitutes and which are not.

2) Malls and Shopping CentersWhere to Meet Filipinas: At The Mall

Women all over the world like to shop, and Filipina girls are no exception. In fact, shopping malls are usually very nice in the Philippines, with temperature control and other amenities, so it is not unusual to find yourself among a crowd of young women if you visit one.

Though some men are too shy to approach women during the day, you can find lots of potentially compatible women if you suck your fear up and say hello while at a mall. Think about it: If she’s out shopping, she’s probably not too busy, so she doesn’t have a whole lot of excuses to turn away her attention. At worst, even if she isn’t interested in a romantic interaction, you may find yourself with a new friend and this can lead to lots of other opportunities in her social network.

Try not to feel too out of place being a Westerner there, and remember to use this fact as an asset whenever you can. Some Filipina women may even view you as exotic, so don’t hesitate to make a connection as you are walking around and exploring the local area.

3) Online Dating

Though it’s often good to make an impression in person, a way to cut out all of the time-wasters is to turn to online dating. Girls who have joined a dating site are actually interested in finding a romantic partner, so you know at the very least that you’ll probably both be on the same page.

Filipinas are very plugged-in when it comes to Internet culture, so you can meet all sorts of girls on dating sites, from low-quality to high-quality ones. Whether you are looking for something long-term or casual, chances are you can find a like-minded partner.

There are a few things to watch out for on these online dating sites, though, so keep on your toes as you assess the profiles. The first thing you need to consider is whether or not she might be a prostitute. Just as with clubs, you will meet an array of women, and some of these women are only looking for money. Though you may find that the hookers are upfront with you, some will string you along to get you interested and then start asking for cash. The best thing to do in such a case is to cut off contact immediately if you suspect that she is even slightly interested in being paid for sex—unless of course you’re into that kind of arrangement.

Another thing to watch out for are scammers. Some girls don’t intend to exchange sex for money—they just want the money part. Be especially aware of this if you are not actually physically in the Philippines and are interacting with a girl long-distance. If she asks you to send her money, and you comply, understand that she is probably using that money for whatever she wants, not for whatever excuse she used to get you to send it to her. She may not even be interested in your romantically; in fact, some of these women are not interested in men at all and simply use the funds that gullible would-be romeos send to them to support their lifestyles.

If any woman asks you to send her money and she hasn’t even met you and isn’t even your girlfriend, always say no.

Other than that, online dating can actually be a very efficient way to talk to many girls at once. Since it’s important to keep you prospects open when you’re trying to find the girl who is right for you, this is probably one of the best methods for meeting girls.

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Remember that you don’t have to limit yourself to any one method. One of the best things that you can do is to use a combination of all of the above methods until you get the results that you’re looking for.

Asian Habits Westerners May Not Understand
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If you’re going to start dating an Asian girl, it would be good to understand some of the differences between your two cultures. Sure, part of the fun in dating someone from a foreign culture is discovering these differences as you go, however, in order to avoid some awkward and perhaps embarrassing moments, watch this video and brush up on a few Asian habits Westerners may not understand.

Food Habits

  • Don’t stick your chopsticks vertically in your rice. In Asian cultures, putting chopsticks upright in a bowl of rice is reserved for offerings to the spirit of people who have passed away. Not for the dinner table.
  • Make slurping sounds while eating your noodles. In the West, are you taught to roll you noodles up on a fork and eat them quietly. In Asia, the exact opposite is true. It is polite to have noodles dangling form your mouth and loudly slurping them up to be eaten. It is a sign the you are enjoying your meal.
  • Food is shared. In the West, you may be use to everybody having and eating from their own plate. But in most Asian cultures, dishes are all shared, much like how we eating during Thanksgiving.

Bathroom Habits – Asian cultures seem to take advantage of the health benefits of squatting while going to the bathroom more so than Western cultures do. To read more into what these health benefits are, take a look over here.

Talking Habits – Talking very loudly and animated is very common is many parts of Asia, and it is not a sign of aggravation or anger.

Cleanliness Habits – Although this is not unique to Asia, it is customary to remove your shoes when entering the house. Slippers may be worn instead of your outdoor footwear.

Not Big on Small Talk – In Western countries, it is common for strangers to greet each other with questions about how they’re doing, e.g., “Hi, how are you?”. Do not be offended in Asian if strangers do not extend the same courtesies as you. Even in the service industry where you would expect people to treat you differently, people are very curt and to the point.

How to Make a Good Impression on Your Chinese Girlfriend’s Parents
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Meeting the parents of your girlfriend can be tough, even when you’re dating someone of your same culture and nationality, so it can certainly be even more nerve-wracking when you’re dealing with an international dating situation. There are so many traditions and expectations that you may not be used to or even have the faintest clue about, and sometimes when you’re dating someone of a culture that is very unlike your own, it can feel like you’re walking on eggshells in an effort not to offend their family. It’s these differences in culture that add to the mystery and excitement of dating internationally, but it can also make for a lot of awkward situations if you are not cautious.

This is never more true than when you are dating a Chinese woman. As a Westerner, many of your experiences and social programming will simply not apply, and—let’s face it—you’re probably already at a disadvantage in the eyes of her parents because you are not Chinese. Keep in mind that Chinese people are more wary of foreigners than most Westerners are, and that they will be concerned for the long-term security of their child. You may feel sometimes that they are judging you, and they very well may be; in fact, they may even refuse to accept you, if they are particularly strict. You can tip the odds in your favor, though, by following these tips and making a good impression on her parents the first time that you meet them:

1) First of all, bring a giftBring a Gift For Your Chinese Girlfriend's Parents

Before you even head over to their house, be sure to pick up a thoughtful gift for your potential in-laws. It doesn’t need to be anything overtly fancy, but don’t insult them by buying anything clearly cheap, either. A good, safe zone is to stick with traditional edibles, such as teas and herbs. You might also want to ask your girlfriend for some suggestions if you really have no idea. Generally speaking, don’t bring flowers, as these don’t have the same connotations as they do in the West.

2) Be respectful

Make polite comments about the house and ask questions to start some small talk. Don’t get too loud or seem too emotional. Avoid getting too familiar too quickly, as well: It is much better to shake hands and nod politely to her parents than to try to hug them when you’ve only just met. In addition, address them with all of the correct honorifics.

3) Make an effort to speak Chinese

Even if your Chinese is broken, or you have difficultly understanding the dialect that her parents speak, her parents will almost certainly appreciate your effort when they see that you are trying to engage and do your best to bridge the gap. When they tell you stories, smile and nod even if you don’t completely understand what may have been said. Pay close attention to body language cues and laugh when everyone else is laughing.

4) Sing your girlfriend’s praises

Once you start getting into deeper conversation, this is the perfect time to start throwing in compliments about your girlfriend. Tell her parents how great you think she is, and explain all of the traits that you think are positive about her, especially those that would make her a good wife. Talk about how talented and smart and capable she is; this is an indirect compliment to her parents and can be very effective, and it tells them that you’re interested in her for the long term. They will also be glad that you appreciate their daughter for all the right reasons, so make it obvious that you truly care for her. On the other hand, however…

5) Avoid being overtly affectionate with your girlfriend

Don’t kiss your girlfriend around her parents or engage in anything that even vaguely implies sexual affection. Don’t hug her or hold her close, either; though such behavior is considered normal in the West, in China it is seen as disrespectful to do this in front of her parents.

6) Keep a look out for the needs of others

In Chinese culture, it is good form to address the needs of others before your own, especially around the dinner table. Offer food to others before you take your portion and fill people’s cups if they appear to be empty. This will go very far in making a good impression, especially since Western people are often viewed as being more rude and individualistic.

7) Do not refuse food Don't Refuse Food When Meeting Your Girlfriend's Parents

Make sure to sample a piece of everything that is placed on the table, and to eat everything off your plate. This shows appreciation for both the cook and the culture. Besides, you might find yourself trying foods that you’ve never heard of before, and that’s always a good thing.

8) Be genuine

At the end of the day, her parents are just people, and they’re almost certainly curious about you. The fact that you are meeting them at all means that you’re probably serious about their daughter, and that means that they are going to want to get to know the real you. While you should be on your best behavior, and act as respectful as possible, that doesn’t mean that you have to be somebody you’re not. Don’t put up a front; own who you are and all of your flaws. In fact, her parents will probably appreciate humility over any attempts to paint a fake, embellished portrait of who you are just to impress them.

As you might imagine, meeting the parents of your Chinese girlfriend can be a tense experience sometimes, and you may feel the weight of expectations on your shoulders very acutely. Try to remember, though, that her parents may be just as nervous as you are. They, too, may be trying hard to make a good impression, especially if they suspect that you may be their future son-in-law. Because of this, try to treat them with compassion and don’t view them as “the opposition.” Above all, find common ground where you can.

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