5 Tips for Dating Taiwanese Girls

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Dating a Taiwanese GirlMany people overlook Taiwan when they are thinking of East Asian territories. In the minds of many people, it gets lumped together with “China,” but the fact of the matter is that, just like many Asian cultures, Taiwanese culture is unique and particular to the area, so it is better to approach the people there with an open mind and with no assumptions that they will be the same as their mainland counterparts.

In fact, the island of Taiwan was more or less culturally isolated from the rest of the world until the advent of mass transportation, so this led to the development of unique customs and unique dialects.

However, as is the case with much of Asia, Taiwanese women make great girlfriends. Unlike many Western women, they are selfless and attentive once you have gained their trust as a boyfriend, and they tend to have a generally positive disposition.

In contrast with Asian women of other cultures, though, you may find that Taiwanese women are refreshingly proactive when it comes to building a relationship with you. Believe it or not, they will often even go to the trouble of contacting you and inviting you to outings if they like you; imagine that! The stereotypical Asian shyness can certainly be sweet, but sometimes it can get tedious when you’re trying to move forward into a romantic connection.

Keeping these differences in mind, let’s take a look at some tips in order to get the most out of your Taiwanese dating experience:

1) Remain open-minded

As mentioned, Taiwanese women are a little different from the women of other Asian territories. They can be just as thoughtful, but they are also a little more assertive with what they want. This can be both a good thing and a bad thing at first, but usually you will find that it will be in your favor. Since she’ll be less likely to hide the fact that she likes you behind a veil of games, you’re more likely to know where you stand with her. In return, be kind and open yourself; vulnerability on both sides is probably the most rewarding approach.

2) Bond through foodTaiwanese Food

It’s no secret that one of the universal languages in this world is food, and this is especially true for Taiwanese people, who love to eat just as much as Westerners do, if not more. A good way to build rapport between you and your prospective girl is to eat together, so if you’re ever wondering where you should take her out on a date, a restaurant isn’t a bad idea.

Food is also a great conversational topic that is sure to keep her interest and keep the two of you in a positive, upbeat mood. Be sure to try some of the local cuisine and expand your horizons there, too; this is a great opportunity for culture exchange and learning.

If you’re thinking of getting her a gift, and have no idea what to give her, one of the best things to default to is food. Though Asian tastes tend to run a little less sweet than those of Westerners, candy or small snack foods can certainly be a nice touch every once in awhile.

3) Exploit the social network

Decent Taiwanese girls will be wary of meeting random men at nightclubs or bars, so if you want a woman who will be girlfriend material, your best bet is to ask your social connections to keep a lookout for any eligible single women. Ask your friends to introduce you to women that they know, and this will make the whole “getting to know you” period much easier, since she will trust you more right off the bat.

4) Don’t be afraid of cultural misunderstandingTaiwanese Girl at Home

It is bound to happen that there will clashes if you’re not too familiar with the culture of Taiwan. Don’t let this scare you into a state of perpetual shyness. Accept that there will be differences, and resolve to get to know the culture as best you can. Foreigners get a certain “free pass” when it comes to some things because you’re not expected to simply know all of the customs of a country. Still, show that you are making an effort and she’ll likely be very appreciative.

5) Try to learn the local language

While having that exotic edge is great, if you plan to spend any time in Taiwan, or you’re seriously looking for a potential mate, there’s no need to limit yourself to women who only speak English. To make things easier and to reduce the amount of communication problems, try to immerse yourself in the culture and language as best you can. Any language of the Chinese family may seem hard to pick up at first to a Westerner, since they are so different from the Indo-European languages, but with some practice you will get used to it.

Again, showing effort in getting to know your girlfriend’s language and culture is likely to impress her. More importantly, if your relationship is going in a serious direction, this effort is likely to pay off hugely when it’s time to make an impression on her parents. Like the people of many Asian cultures, her parents may be a bit wary of foreigners and may question your commitment, so your taking the trouble to learn the language will be a good sign in their eyes.

So if you’re planning a trip to Taiwan or are merely considering dating Taiwanese girls as you start your search for a good girlfriend or wife, remember these tips.

More importantly, try not to worry too much about outcomes and keep yourself open to possibilities. Sure, you are looking forward to the end goal of having a date or finding a decent partner, but make sure not to limit yourself too soon, either by clinging to a specific woman too soon or by dwelling on worrisome thoughts.

The more comfortable and confident you are, the more she will mirror your attitude, so remember that, even though your cultures are different, Taiwanese women are human beings just like anyone else, and there’s no reason to be too nervous.

5 Reasons Why You Should Date A Filipina Woman

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Filipina in SunsetThe Philippines is a tropical paradise in Southern Asia, filled with a population of people who have a surprisingly pro-Western attitude, and whose culture could be described as a mix of East Asian and Hispanic. Thanks to the many different diverse nations that have landed on their shores, the Philippines is a very interesting territory with very interesting traditions and culture—and even more interesting women.

Filipino women are great change of pace if you’ve been dating Western women, and they are a great choice if you are only just beginning to discover the benefits of dating women of an Asian nationality. While you may know ethnic Filipinas who were born in your own Western country, the women who were born and raised in the Philippines (even if they expatriated later) can be very different, so don’t assume that you know the culture if you have never visited and seen these women for yourself in person.

If you are considering exploring the Philippines, there are some great reasons to date Filipina woman while you’re there. Let’s take a look:

1) Filipinas are patient

Like women of other Asian cultures, Filipinas are taught very early on by their parents to speak in an agreeable tone of voice and to not be quick to criticize. They avoid getting into loud fights or being overly combative, so you can expect that there will be a lot less drama to deal with if you date a woman of this character. While of course there always comes a time when a person—even a demure Filipina girl—must speak her mind, she will know to do it very tactfully and with an emphasis on avoiding too much conflict. If you prefer your girls to be polite, Filipinas are not a bad choice.

2) They take marriage seriously

Since divorce is not allowed in the Philippines (yes, really), Filipinas take the commitment extremely seriously, and would not enter into a marriage without knowing that the only thing that can really part you is death. As a result, they are extremely loyal wives who stay by their husband’s side no matter what. Now, you may not be interested in a marriage at this point in your life (or any point at all), but it is comforting to know that cultural habits, and even the law, is skewed in the favor of loyalty, commitment, and tradition if you ever do decide to get hitched.

3) They are happy to date older men

In superficial Western society, you may be under the impression that once you turn 40, it’s all over and you are not considered “cool” or “attractive” by any of the sexier, younger women whom you may prefer. This does not have to be the case at all! In the Philippines, it’s not unusual for women to date and sometimes even prefer an older man. After all, older men are more secure and established, and this can be a huge advantage for a woman who is looking for real commitment.

4) It is not impossible to find a Filipina woman who has saved herself for marriage (or a committed relationship)Asian Model Beside Bed

Some men might not care about this, but it is nice to know that a woman you are seriously dating had not run around with dozens of other men before you and may in fact still be a virgin. Try finding a Western woman over the age of about 19 who is a attractive and yet still remains a virgin; in a culture that increasingly embraces short-term pleasure over a more long-term vision, it is considered unusual, even strange for a Western woman to be in her twenties and not have experimented with sex. By the time they are out of college, most attractive Western women have not only had sex, but have had relations with multiple partners, in multiple positions and locations, using techniques you might haven’t even heard of.

While this is a turn-on for some people, some guys prefer a more conservative woman who still has many “firsts” to share with him. In addition, some studies suggest that the more partners a woman has before marriage, the less likely the marriage is to succeed. You might consider dating a Filipina girl to help reduce the chances of promiscuity affecting your relationship in this way.

5) Filipinas are often completely fluent in English

If you’re an English-speaker (and chances are, if you’re reading this, you are), then you may feel a bit frustrated that a huge barrier to dating the beautiful women of Eastern cultures is not knowing the language. While, believe it or not, you don’t necessarily need to know each other’s language to fall in love, it definitely helps! This is where Filipina women really shine.

Filipinas, compared to other Asian women, are particularly fluent in English—and it’s not the counterfeit classroom “fluency” that you might find in other cultures; it is actual, practical fluency, and it is extremely common in Filipino people. You may be shocked to find that a woman you have met has a nearly perfect American accent, and that she understands 100% of what you are saying. In fact, many students from other countries travel to the Philippines specifically to learn English in their schools, and English is a compulsory subject for Filipinos from a very young age.

What probably fuels this fluency isn’t school, however, but a strong respect for Western culture and a tendency to watch Western movies in their native English. If you would like to experience the women of an Asian culture while not having to necessarily invest the time into learning a foreign language, Filipina women certainly make it easier for you.

With all of these advantages, you might be just about ready to open up a new browser tab and book a flight, and of course no one can blame you for your eagerness. First, though, you might want to try exploring Filipina women and getting a feel for them from where you sit. Dating sites are a great option before you jump the gun and head overseas.

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Dating Chinese Women – Tips You Need To Know

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Asian Model PosingThere’s almost always going to be some kind of learning curve when you’re first getting into dating women of a different culture—in fact, that exact sense of fast-paced learning and discovery is exactly why it can be so much more stimulating than dating a Western woman at times. That feeling of the “unknown” can make cross-cultural love affairs particularly intense.

On the other hand, of course there is a dark side of sorts to this: With every moment of extreme passion and exploration, there can be moments of frustration. The very things about her that seem like an exciting mystery at one moment can become an annoying enigma the next. And you know what? It’s probably the same from her perspective, too; don’t forget that a woman encountering a man from a strange culture such as yourself is likely going through the same emotional ups and downs as you.

One thing that can minimize the downside when you’re first starting the seduction process, however, is a bit of education. Take a look at these tips for when you’re dating Chinese women and try to internalize them as best you can:

1) First of all, accept that you’re foreign

Own what you are. The last thing you want to do is to try to act like an average Chinese man in order to appeal to her. If she showed interest in you, it’s probably because she’s looking for something “different” and exotic, not because she wants to experience the same old traditional dating ritual that she’s used to from men of her own culture. In fact, she may be looking for a little bit of adventure with you, so why not play along with whatever fantasy she has in her mind? If she’s looking to date you because you’re specifically foreign, half the work has already been done for you; don’t break the allure of mystery that you can build by trying to “act Chinese.”

2) Don’t be afraid to challenge her

Again, she’s probably looking for something different if she’s making moon-eyes at you, a Westerner. Most attractive women, especially those who live in an environment as conservative as the Chinese culture, deal with suiters who attempt to go through the usual, expected notions of buying her dinner and trying to win her through favors.

Throw all of that out the window. Be different. Be unexpected. Keep things casual and stay more or less aloof at first. Allow her to show interest in you first before you become too invested. Introduce her to new customs, foods, and other enriching aspects of your own culture. Constantly throw new and challenging things at her; this is likely not only what she’s subconsciously looking for from a foreigner, but it’s also what will make her attracted to a man, regardless of his cultural background.

3) Don’t look too unkempt

Of course, the Western standards and the Chinese standards for “unkempt” are likely to be different, so educate yourself on what the local preference may be. For one, though, Chinese girls seem to prefer clean-shaved men, but if you’re going for that “exotic” angle, it might not hurt to keep a small, well-groomed goatee to make your Western-ness stand out a little more. However, you may find that you won’t have much luck with the long, voluminous hobo beards that have been popular in the West of late.

By the way, Westerners have a general reputation in a lot of Asian countries as being more “gross” than Asian people. It may be an unfair categorization, but just to be on the safe side, be sure to give yourself a good wash and rub some deodorant on your pits.

Finally, wear some decent clothes. In the West—particularly in the US—people are used to wearing extremely casual, sometimes pajama-esque clothes all the time, even when they go out. By all means, don’t wear a tuxedo or anything when you meet her, but a decent shirt and pants wouldn’t hurt.

4) Do not tie yourself to one woman too soon

Like the women of most cultures, as much as they may deny it, Chinese women like to see a man who is desired by other women. Of course, you don’t have to rub it in her face that you’re seeing other girls, but, on the other hand, making it clear that you’re 100% invested in her too soon will make her feel pressured (not to mention less attracted to you), so seek a happy medium and let the question of your commitment hang a little. Don’t deny that you’re seeing other women, but don’t go out of your way to confirm it, either. It’s much more powerful if she learns about it through the grapevine anyway.

5) Don’t be a lying, cheating sleaze

On the other hand, there is no need to be dishonest about your romantic activities, and in fact behaving like a sociopath will not win you any points with Chinese girls the way some people claim it does with Western girls.

Keep your word and don’t be flaky. Avoid playing immature mind games. Be honest and upfront about what kind of relationship you’re looking for, and don’t pretend that you desire some kind of commitment if you’re only looking for a casual romance.

6) Listen carefully to the messages in her actions

Generally-speaking, Chinese women (and Chinese people) are not as expressive with their emotions as Western people are. Many of them have never even told their own mothers “I love you.” Because of this tendency to be more guarded and slower to reveal her true emotions, you will have to read between the lines here to see the signs of her affection.

Instead of looking for the evidence of her feelings in her words, look at the way she acts. Does she do lots of little favors for you? Does she cook for you? Does she buy you trinkets on occasion? These could all be signs of a special fondness that she feels for you. Pay close attention.

7) Don’t insult her family

This may be obvious, but when you’re dealing with a different culture, you might not realize certain critical local customs. If things are getting serious and you’re about to meet any members of her family, familiarize yourself with cultural habits and introduce yourself as politely as possible.

Ultimately, though there are a few things to learn that are particular to the Chinese culture, dating a Chinese woman is, at its core, not much different than dating any other woman. Most women, regardless of culture, are looking for an exciting, challenging man who can offer them diverse experiences in an honest way. Simply be that man, and the rest follows.

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