How To Avoid Thai Girlfriend Scams – Red Flags You Need To Know

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Thai Scam AlertThailand is a Mecca of sorts for those who are looking for love—or just for some steamy encounters with some of the world’s sexiest women—and for thousands of foreigners every year (called “farang” by the locals), it does not disappoint.

Most of the men who search through the throngs of petite, smiling Thai women for a wife or a girlfriend find what they’re looking for, though there is always a percentage that will find exactly what they’re not looking for without realizing it at first.

No, we’re not talking about surprise encounters with ladyboys here; many Western men who dive into the world of dating foreign women, especially Thai women, allow their idealism to blind them to the point where they fall for the most transparent Thai girlfriend scams.

The fact of the matter is, just like any other part of the world, especially parts of the world that are still in the process of industrializing, some of these potential “girlfriends” are looking to take you for all you’ve got.

Some of them are scamming several men at the same time, receiving funds every month from their various “boyfriends” under the pretense that this money will keep them from having to work in a brothel or bar where they would be compelled to have encounters with strangers.

Honestly, does it sound like she’s your girlfriend if you have to pay for her to stay true to you? Sure, some men do end up marrying bar girls, but do you really think that a girl who has been working as a prostitute for half her life is your best bet for a healthy relationship, especially if you have to pay her not to have sex with other men? Especially when you consider the fact that many of these women will secretly continue to work in bars anyway?

So how do you go about avoiding Thai women scams that will take advantage of your foreign money so that you can put your energy instead into one of the multitude of perfectly honest, high-quality Thai women? Take a look at these tips and stay ahead of the game:

1) Don’t be desperate

Sometimes perfectly reasonable men will do some stupid things when it comes to love. You may have even witnessed this yourself: Some guys torture themselves by chasing around women who aren’t interested, or by staying with abusive girlfriends, only because their minds are clouded by their attachments.

Well, this isn’t really love—this is desperation. It is this desperation that is the root of why these sorts of scams perpetrated by Thai girls work in the first place. Desperation makes idiots out of us all; it makes us misjudge our true worth and causes us to make stupid decisions based on our feelings of loss in the moment.

Remember that there are many women out there in the world, and that no one single person is the end-all, be-all. There is no reason to feel desperate because in fact, chances are, you have a multitude of options, especially if you’re a foreign man looking for a wife or girlfriend in Thailand. Do not settle for less than what you’re worth!

2) If you have to pay her, she’s not your girlfriendThai Bar Girl Scam

This might seem like second nature, but you’d be surprised the kind of subtle manipulations and creative excuses these girls can come up with to get their money.

You’re on a date and suddenly she mentions that her little brother needs some medicine but that her family doesn’t have enough money for it. Would you mind spotting her some? It really isn’t much. Maybe she’ll email you about how she’s about to start school, but she doesn’t have the money to buy a motorbike to get there every day.

All of these appear to be reasonable requests on the surface, but as they grow more elaborate and more expensive, you may not even notice what’s happening, especially if you have money to burn.

There’s also those common Thai bar girls who like to collect men to maintain them. Basically, you would be paying her not to work (and thus prostitute herself to other men). As an outsider to this situation, does this sound reasonable to you? There is no reason you should have to pay a maintenance fee to keep a girlfriend. That’s basically prostitution, except without even the promise of sex. If you wish to have an ongoing relationship with a prostitute, that’s fine, but see it for what it is and don’t delude yourself in that you are anything more than a client.

Now, doing the occasional favor for your Thai girlfriend, buying her the occasional gift and paying for your meals together is not unexpected or out of the ordinary, especially if you make much more than she does. This is where the differences lie: A quality girlfriend will try not to burden you with her problems and will attempt to live a self-sufficient life like any other reasonable person.

At the very least, her sexual conduct concerning others will not be based on the condition of your ability to pay up! She will actually be interested in impressing you and will see you as more than a walking wallet.

3) Don’t look for girlfriends in all the wrong places

Thai Bar ScamSearching for a long-term girlfriend? Want a woman that could possible become your wife? What the heck are you doing searching for her in a hostess bar, then? Yes, these professional girls can be attractive and alluring, and part of their charm is how forward they are and how much they fight to get your attention—but they are only that way because they are paid to be that way!

Plenty of men have fallen for the fantasy that a cute bar girl has genuinely developed feelings for them and only them, but more often than not, these women are simply master manipulators. They exploit men for a living, so they have trained themselves to see little more than dollar signs when they see you; do not fall for their illusion.

Whether you are meeting girls online using a convenient dating site, or you’ve bit the bullet and are touring Thailand in person, be extremely wary of the girls who admit to working as “entertainment” in bars or clubs. You are better off concentrating your efforts elsewhere.

There are many aspects to these kinds of romance scams, as they can be very complex. However, if you keep these three general tips in mind, it will help you avoid most of the troublesome ladies. More importantly, remember to go with your gut: If something seems strange about her, or she seems like she’s hiding something or making unreasonable requests too early in the relationship, steer clear.

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5 Reasons Why You Should Date A Filipina Woman

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Filipina in SunsetThe Philippines is a tropical paradise in Southern Asia, filled with a population of people who have a surprisingly pro-Western attitude, and whose culture could be described as a mix of East Asian and Hispanic. Thanks to the many different diverse nations that have landed on their shores, the Philippines is a very interesting territory with very interesting traditions and culture—and even more interesting women.

Filipino women are great change of pace if you’ve been dating Western women, and they are a great choice if you are only just beginning to discover the benefits of dating women of an Asian nationality. While you may know ethnic Filipinas who were born in your own Western country, the women who were born and raised in the Philippines (even if they expatriated later) can be very different, so don’t assume that you know the culture if you have never visited and seen these women for yourself in person.

If you are considering exploring the Philippines, there are some great reasons to date Filipina woman while you’re there. Let’s take a look:

1) Filipinas are patient

Like women of other Asian cultures, Filipinas are taught very early on by their parents to speak in an agreeable tone of voice and to not be quick to criticize. They avoid getting into loud fights or being overly combative, so you can expect that there will be a lot less drama to deal with if you date a woman of this character. While of course there always comes a time when a person—even a demure Filipina girl—must speak her mind, she will know to do it very tactfully and with an emphasis on avoiding too much conflict. If you prefer your girls to be polite, Filipinas are not a bad choice.

2) They take marriage seriously

Since divorce is not allowed in the Philippines (yes, really), Filipinas take the commitment extremely seriously, and would not enter into a marriage without knowing that the only thing that can really part you is death. As a result, they are extremely loyal wives who stay by their husband’s side no matter what. Now, you may not be interested in a marriage at this point in your life (or any point at all), but it is comforting to know that cultural habits, and even the law, is skewed in the favor of loyalty, commitment, and tradition if you ever do decide to get hitched.

3) They are happy to date older men

In superficial Western society, you may be under the impression that once you turn 40, it’s all over and you are not considered “cool” or “attractive” by any of the sexier, younger women whom you may prefer. This does not have to be the case at all! In the Philippines, it’s not unusual for women to date and sometimes even prefer an older man. After all, older men are more secure and established, and this can be a huge advantage for a woman who is looking for real commitment.

4) It is not impossible to find a Filipina woman who has saved herself for marriage (or a committed relationship)Asian Model Beside Bed

Some men might not care about this, but it is nice to know that a woman you are seriously dating had not run around with dozens of other men before you and may in fact still be a virgin. Try finding a Western woman over the age of about 19 who is a attractive and yet still remains a virgin; in a culture that increasingly embraces short-term pleasure over a more long-term vision, it is considered unusual, even strange for a Western woman to be in her twenties and not have experimented with sex. By the time they are out of college, most attractive Western women have not only had sex, but have had relations with multiple partners, in multiple positions and locations, using techniques you might haven’t even heard of.

While this is a turn-on for some people, some guys prefer a more conservative woman who still has many “firsts” to share with him. In addition, some studies suggest that the more partners a woman has before marriage, the less likely the marriage is to succeed. You might consider dating a Filipina girl to help reduce the chances of promiscuity affecting your relationship in this way.

5) Filipinas are often completely fluent in English

If you’re an English-speaker (and chances are, if you’re reading this, you are), then you may feel a bit frustrated that a huge barrier to dating the beautiful women of Eastern cultures is not knowing the language. While, believe it or not, you don’t necessarily need to know each other’s language to fall in love, it definitely helps! This is where Filipina women really shine.

Filipinas, compared to other Asian women, are particularly fluent in English—and it’s not the counterfeit classroom “fluency” that you might find in other cultures; it is actual, practical fluency, and it is extremely common in Filipino people. You may be shocked to find that a woman you have met has a nearly perfect American accent, and that she understands 100% of what you are saying. In fact, many students from other countries travel to the Philippines specifically to learn English in their schools, and English is a compulsory subject for Filipinos from a very young age.

What probably fuels this fluency isn’t school, however, but a strong respect for Western culture and a tendency to watch Western movies in their native English. If you would like to experience the women of an Asian culture while not having to necessarily invest the time into learning a foreign language, Filipina women certainly make it easier for you.

With all of these advantages, you might be just about ready to open up a new browser tab and book a flight, and of course no one can blame you for your eagerness. First, though, you might want to try exploring Filipina women and getting a feel for them from where you sit. Dating sites are a great option before you jump the gun and head overseas.

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8 Reasons Why You Should Date A Vietnamese Woman

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Once a war-torn country that in fact had a few run-ins with some Western nations (namely the U.S.), Vietnam has made a comeback in recent decades, and has become a hub for startups lately, boosting the already growing economy. Ever since its markets were made a bit more free, it has become a great place to explore, and, for some, an even greater place to find love.

Why Should You Date A Vietnamese Woman?

What are Vietnamese women like? Many foreigners tend to lump Asian women into one category, but the truth is that Vietnamese women come from a distinct culture, and have many advantages over not only Western women, but women of other Asian nationalities as well. Let’s take a look at some of these reasons why you might do well to date a Vietnamese woman:

1) They’re loyalVietnamese Girl in Hat

Vietnamese women tend to believe in keeping stable long-term relationships. You might find that they are much less likely to cheat on your or walk out on you when things in life get difficult. Disloyalty is something that we often take for granted in Western society, a culture where you’re not expected to stay with your spouse once you notice the first signs of “unhappiness.” By contrast, divorce rates in Vietnam are extremely low, because Vietnamese women understand the value of long-term emotional returns as opposed to short-term instant gratification.

2) They have class

Usually Vietnamese women are quiet, polite, and interested in giving off a good impression. They demonstrate restraint by avoiding overt conflict and attempting to keep interactions as pleasant as possible. If you’re sick of confrontational Western women, this might be a nice change of pace.

3) They are humble

Humility is something you’ll generally be hard-pressed to find in Western women, which is somewhat understandable because it is not rewarded by our society. Western women get a lot of attention for acting in a self-centered way, indiscreetly displaying their physical attributes for the world to see on social media, and boasting the way that men often do. Vietnamese women are instead raised to be humble and to care about others and to genuinely worry about people.

4) They are less promiscuousBack of Vietnamese Woman

This may not be a “pro” for you, depending on what you’re going for, but since they tend to be so loyal to their partners and put so much emphasis on long-term relationships, they are not going to jump into sex right away unless they are fairly sure that the man they are dating is a good fit. If you’re looking for “easy” girls, Vietnamese women may not be what you are looking for, but at least you know that if you date one of these women, it is unlikely that she has had very many partners before you.

5) They believe in family

Once you have known each other for a little bit, she will probably expect you to meet her parents and siblings. If she is dating you, she will also likely be evaluating your potential as a partner for building a family of her own.

Again, if you’re only looking for a one-night stand, this may not be what you want, but if you’re trying to date with the intention of finding a long-term girlfriend or a future wife, then dating a Vietnamese woman would probably be a good idea. You want a woman who will stay by your side and happily raise your children.

6) They are less materialistic

Since their culture places such a huge emphasis on family and other spiritual values over material or monetary ones, you don’t have to worry quite as much that she’s going to take your for a ride and try to scam you. The possibility is always there, of course, but Vietnamese women are generally less interested in money than women of many other cultures. Don’t take this to mean that a Vietnamese a woman isn’t going to care if you’re broke, now—nearly all women, all across the globe care at least to some extent about your net worth, and there’s no real way to get around that—but she is going to care about this more to the extent that lack of wealth could interfere with raising a family, and less to the extent that no cash means she can’t get the latest designer handbag.

7) If the Vietnamese girl is looking for foreign men, she is rather braveVietnamese Woman in White Dress

This may sound like an odd point of advantage, but Vietnam is a very traditional society, and as you might imagine some of the older folks don’t take too kindly to their daughters dating foreign men, especially Western men. (There is still some level of dislike due to political conflict of the past, on top of the fact that, like many Asian nations, there is a preference for women to marry men of the same culture.) If she’s willing to take social risks to date you, this means she must really like you and see potential in you as a partner, or else she has a lot more courage than her peers do. Take this as a compliment.

8) They believe in being feminine

Generally, Vietnamese women maintain a classic, feminine look. While you might find pixie cuts, tattoos, torn-up jeans, and other classless, masculine decoration quite often in Western women, especially ones of the American persuasion, it will be much harder to find a Vietnamese woman sporting this same kind of…ornamentation. In fact, go ahead and try to find one that fits this description; you’ll be looking forever.

While some men prefer this kind of rough look, a lot of us crave a softer, more submissive, more feminine appearance, and Vietnamese women certainly tend to fit this description.

So if you’re looking for a girlfriend who is family-oriented, more conservative, and who gives off an air of class and humility, you should try dating a Vietnamese woman. Known for their stunning beauty and femininity, even if you’re not sure if marriage is in your long-term plans, it’s worth it to get acquainted with one of these ladies.

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8 Reasons Why You Should Date A Thai Woman

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Sexy Thai Lady in Front of a MirrorAh, Thailand: A place of spiritual enlightenment filled with beautiful Buddhist temples and lines of monks filing down the street every morning—and also a place of bars, strip clubs, and general debauchery. Many a young man has been seduced by this world of extremes, and found himself both in a state of growth and of overwhelm. Many young men have also found themselves in love; in a foreign land where the women seem to be so genuinely kind and cheerful, especially compared to Western women, it is easy to fall head over heels.

You may know of men who have a taste for Thai women. Indeed, lots of tourist activity from Western nations revolves around the very fact that so many foreign men find the women in Thailand to be pleasing. Why is this though? Let’s take a look at some of the core reasons why men are visiting Thailand in droves in order to find wives or girlfriend (or, for some of the less discriminating types, a paid date):

1) Thai women are generally positive.

Obviously, this varies, but one of the first things that makes a huge impression on people when they visit the Land of Smiles is, well…the smiles! In Western cultures, the unfortunate trend of late has been a tendency for cynicism, sarcasm, and complaining. Even most of our comedy and humor falls along these lines. In Thai culture, it is seen as somewhat unseemly to unload your problems onto other people or to subject other people to your anger by losing your temper. Getting negative or emotional is a quick way to lose face, and so generally you will find that Thai women try to bring up positive things in conversation and they won’t spend all of your time together venting about their problems.

2) They show that they care about you.

While Western women tend to be a bit more reserved about doing favors for men or giving them gifts (because there’s a common cultural belief that the men should be doing this for the women), Thai women understand the value of a good man, so you may find that they are extremely accommodating and willing to help you. For example, if you don’t know how to get to a certain place, you may be shocked to find that a Thai woman you’re dating might go out of her way not only to give you directions, but to come along with you.

3) They are less entitled.

Because Thai girls general don’t grow up with all the conveniences that Western women grow up with, they have less of a sense of entitlement and less of an expectation that the world is going to take care of them. If you would like a woman that isn’t living in this bubble of detrimental comfort, you might consider dating a Thai lady, especially one from a small town.

4) They actually want to make you happy.

Thai Woman in a BikiniWhile of course it depends on the individual, in general Thai women place more of an emphasis on keeping their men happy than Western women do. For example, if your sex drive is higher than that of your Western girlfriend, she may be shocked if you imply that she should endeavor to have sex with you more often anyway; by contrast, Thai women are generally glad to please their men, often worrying that if they don’t keep their boyfriends content, they may run around with other women.

5) They are less superficial.

So, maybe you don’t have six pack abs and biceps that are bursting out of your shirt, nor are you a billionaire who drives a Ferrari to get to his mailbox. However, you would think that you’d need to be all these things to get a girlfriend if you went by the entitled attitude of some Western women, who can be petty, superficial, and unrealistic about what they seek from a mate. Thai women are often more mature in this regard, and they see a man for his long-term potential and character. They know that looks and youth fade over time, and they’re more willing to date older, more established men if the man is stable and honest.

6) They are tactful.

One way that you can tell how a person will treat you over the long-term, even after the initial tingles have worn off, is how they treat others. In Thai society, kindness is an important social trait as they are a Buddhist culture and they believe in Karma. Though of course this has its disadvantages (like less clarity), Thai women are generally very careful with the way they treat the feelings of others and they will almost never behave in a rude way. They are taught to not be confrontational or abrasive, which can be very refreshing if you’ve spent time dating Western women.

7) They are more submissive.

With Western women, there is often this hidden agenda beneath the surface, where every move you make is secretly being used to fuel a power struggle between you and your girlfriend. Have you ever felt that? Have you ever had a Western woman refuse to comply with a suggestion of yours for no logical reason, or for the mere purposes of childishly proving that you “can’t tell [her] what to do?” Have you ever had a Western woman accuse you of chauvinism simply because you didn’t agree with her?

You can forget all of that drama if you date a Thai woman; they are usually much more submissive than Western women and they don’t find it insulting to follow your lead. If you prefer to give your woman more of the control, that’s completely up to you of course, but if you’re the kind of guy who is into the more “traditional” roles of men and women, you would probably have better luck with a Thai girl than with a Western woman.

8) They are beautiful.

Of course, the Thai look isn’t everyone’s cup of tea, but if you’re into petite girls who generally know how to keep their waistlines in control, then a Thai lady might be exactly what you want. Thai women also tend to age very well, so they will keep their looks longer if you do plan to bite the bullet and get married someday.

As with women of any culture, Thai women aren’t going to be perfect, but if you find the traits mentioned above to be appealing, you might be able to find true love in the Land of Smiles—and there are plenty of eligible women there who are ready and willing for the right foreign man to come along.

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Dating Chinese Women – Tips You Need To Know

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Asian Model PosingThere’s almost always going to be some kind of learning curve when you’re first getting into dating women of a different culture—in fact, that exact sense of fast-paced learning and discovery is exactly why it can be so much more stimulating than dating a Western woman at times. That feeling of the “unknown” can make cross-cultural love affairs particularly intense.

On the other hand, of course there is a dark side of sorts to this: With every moment of extreme passion and exploration, there can be moments of frustration. The very things about her that seem like an exciting mystery at one moment can become an annoying enigma the next. And you know what? It’s probably the same from her perspective, too; don’t forget that a woman encountering a man from a strange culture such as yourself is likely going through the same emotional ups and downs as you.

One thing that can minimize the downside when you’re first starting the seduction process, however, is a bit of education. Take a look at these tips for when you’re dating Chinese women and try to internalize them as best you can:

1) First of all, accept that you’re foreign

Own what you are. The last thing you want to do is to try to act like an average Chinese man in order to appeal to her. If she showed interest in you, it’s probably because she’s looking for something “different” and exotic, not because she wants to experience the same old traditional dating ritual that she’s used to from men of her own culture. In fact, she may be looking for a little bit of adventure with you, so why not play along with whatever fantasy she has in her mind? If she’s looking to date you because you’re specifically foreign, half the work has already been done for you; don’t break the allure of mystery that you can build by trying to “act Chinese.”

2) Don’t be afraid to challenge her

Again, she’s probably looking for something different if she’s making moon-eyes at you, a Westerner. Most attractive women, especially those who live in an environment as conservative as the Chinese culture, deal with suiters who attempt to go through the usual, expected notions of buying her dinner and trying to win her through favors.

Throw all of that out the window. Be different. Be unexpected. Keep things casual and stay more or less aloof at first. Allow her to show interest in you first before you become too invested. Introduce her to new customs, foods, and other enriching aspects of your own culture. Constantly throw new and challenging things at her; this is likely not only what she’s subconsciously looking for from a foreigner, but it’s also what will make her attracted to a man, regardless of his cultural background.

3) Don’t look too unkempt

Of course, the Western standards and the Chinese standards for “unkempt” are likely to be different, so educate yourself on what the local preference may be. For one, though, Chinese girls seem to prefer clean-shaved men, but if you’re going for that “exotic” angle, it might not hurt to keep a small, well-groomed goatee to make your Western-ness stand out a little more. However, you may find that you won’t have much luck with the long, voluminous hobo beards that have been popular in the West of late.

By the way, Westerners have a general reputation in a lot of Asian countries as being more “gross” than Asian people. It may be an unfair categorization, but just to be on the safe side, be sure to give yourself a good wash and rub some deodorant on your pits.

Finally, wear some decent clothes. In the West—particularly in the US—people are used to wearing extremely casual, sometimes pajama-esque clothes all the time, even when they go out. By all means, don’t wear a tuxedo or anything when you meet her, but a decent shirt and pants wouldn’t hurt.

4) Do not tie yourself to one woman too soon

Like the women of most cultures, as much as they may deny it, Chinese women like to see a man who is desired by other women. Of course, you don’t have to rub it in her face that you’re seeing other girls, but, on the other hand, making it clear that you’re 100% invested in her too soon will make her feel pressured (not to mention less attracted to you), so seek a happy medium and let the question of your commitment hang a little. Don’t deny that you’re seeing other women, but don’t go out of your way to confirm it, either. It’s much more powerful if she learns about it through the grapevine anyway.

5) Don’t be a lying, cheating sleaze

On the other hand, there is no need to be dishonest about your romantic activities, and in fact behaving like a sociopath will not win you any points with Chinese girls the way some people claim it does with Western girls.

Keep your word and don’t be flaky. Avoid playing immature mind games. Be honest and upfront about what kind of relationship you’re looking for, and don’t pretend that you desire some kind of commitment if you’re only looking for a casual romance.

6) Listen carefully to the messages in her actions

Generally-speaking, Chinese women (and Chinese people) are not as expressive with their emotions as Western people are. Many of them have never even told their own mothers “I love you.” Because of this tendency to be more guarded and slower to reveal her true emotions, you will have to read between the lines here to see the signs of her affection.

Instead of looking for the evidence of her feelings in her words, look at the way she acts. Does she do lots of little favors for you? Does she cook for you? Does she buy you trinkets on occasion? These could all be signs of a special fondness that she feels for you. Pay close attention.

7) Don’t insult her family

This may be obvious, but when you’re dealing with a different culture, you might not realize certain critical local customs. If things are getting serious and you’re about to meet any members of her family, familiarize yourself with cultural habits and introduce yourself as politely as possible.

Ultimately, though there are a few things to learn that are particular to the Chinese culture, dating a Chinese woman is, at its core, not much different than dating any other woman. Most women, regardless of culture, are looking for an exciting, challenging man who can offer them diverse experiences in an honest way. Simply be that man, and the rest follows.

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Given the language, cultural, and geographical barriers, it can be difficult to meet someone from another country that you really connect with. iDateAsia.com provides the solution to that. It offers you with all the tools necessary to meet several different women for different countries, and really get to know them until you’ve found the right one.

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Registering

Registering for iDateAsia.com is simple, easy and fast. There is only one for to fill out, and the whole process takes about 20 seconds.

All you need to do gain access to the website is fill out the following information:

  • Name
  • What you’re looking for
  • Age
  • Nationality
  • Relationship Status
  • Email
  • Password
  • Ideal Age Match

Once you’re done, click on “Find My Matches” and you’re in!

The first thing you’ll be prompted to do once you’ve completed the registration form is the answer 7 questions that will help locate girls with common interest for you. The questions are:

  1. Does your partner’s weight matter to you?
  2. Are you a passionate kisser?
  3. Do you believe in astrological signs when looking for matches?
  4. Do you think women look better wearing dresses than pants?
  5. Do you have a secret that you’ve never told anyone?
  6. Do you hope for love to develop from friendship?
  7. Do you believe in love at first sight?

Based on your answers, a few will be selected for you, which you have the option of contacting right away, or just check out their profile and learn more about them. The list of girls shown at this point is just to help you get started, but don’t worry, there are tons more girls to browse if you click on the ‘Online’ tab of the main menu.

Near the top of the screen you will notice a place that lists Qpid Credits and Points. Registering automatically scores you 10 free points. You can use these points on the site to interact with the girls. I will discuss this more later on.

Verifying Your Email

The next thing you should do is verify your email address. If you look at the very top of the screen at this point, you will see a small banner that prompts you to do this.

Verifying your email if very standard. Simply log into your inbox and find the email they sent you. You will have received 2 emails. One from iDateAsia.com, and the second from Qpid Network. To verify your email address, open the email from Qpid Network and click on the button that says ‘Verify Your Account’. You will then be taken to a confirmation page which you can close and return to iDateAsia.com.

Start Browsing

Now that your profile is all set up, you can begin browsing all the ladies. Choosing the right lady is going to be no easy task, as at any given time, there are hundreds of gorgeous women online for you to browse through. If you simple want to look through all of them, just head over to the ‘Online’ section.

If you have a preference for ladies from a particular country of origin, you can head over to the ‘Search’ section and sort the profiles by:

  • Age
  • Country
  • Region

You will be able to find girls from:

  • Vietnam
  • Philippines
  • Taiwan
  • Thailand

The ladies range in age from 18 to 65+. Suffice it to say that there is someone there there for everyone.

Note: There are no women from China on this site. China is so big and has so many single ladies that it has an entire website dedicated solely to it by the same creators of idateasia.com. If you are looking for to date single Chinese women, visit ChnLove.com.

Ladies Profiles

While browsing, if one of the ladies grabs your attention, you can find out more about here by clicking on her picture. This will take you to her profile.

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You will see a short introduction at the top, followed by several pictures of the lady you’re interested in. You will notice something about the pictures. They will all be branded with a idateasia.com logo in the bottom corner.

Don’t get the wrong idea from this. Though many of them look the part, these ladies are not professional models. All their pictures have the idateasia.com watermark on them because having a photo shoot with idateasia.com’s professional photographer is part of the process of getting on this site for them.

This is not like a North American dating site where anybody can sign up and upload their own pictures to their profile. The quality of the content found on idateasia.com is strictly controlled and part of the way they do that is to take their own pictures of all the members of the site.

Furthermore, as part of the application process, all the ladies on iDateAsia.com are verified through government issued photo identification such as a passport, to ensure that all the ladies you see real and legitimate. Here is it in their own words:

idateasian.com Verified Profile Text

Below the ladies photos, you will be able to read a description of her and see what things you have in common. Here is an example:

iDateAsia.com Nana Detailed Profile

Contacting a Girl

idateasia.com offers many different ways for you to get to know one of the ladies on the site. They are:

  • Live chat – simplest and most direct way to communicate if she is online.
  • Email – If you’re not ready for live chat, or if the girl you’re interested in isn’t online.
  • Call – You can talk directly, or through a translator if needed.

If you want to get a better idea of a lady’s personality, her voice, her spoken English skills, etc, most ladies have a video of themselves that you can watch on their profile. Some ladies even have more than 1 video you can watch.

idateasian.com Videos

iDateAsia.com Costs

iDateAsia.com is absolutely free to join, free to browse, and even free to contact ladies. However there are some costs associated with it if you are serious about meeting someone on this site.

The way the site works is, you need to use ‘credits’ to perform certain actions that allow you to communicate with the girls. Just for you singing up to the site and completing your profile, you are awarded several free ‘points’ which you can use instead of credits, but once your points run out, you have to switch.

The credits can be purchased on the site itself. There are various bundling options, the more you buy, the less you pay per credit.

Sketchy Parts

Very shortly after you sign up for the site, you begin receiving notifications saying that there are girls wanting to chat with you. These notifications pop-up every few minutes whenever you are on the site, regardless of what time of the day you are visiting it. Given that all the girls on this website are from Asian in countries like Vietnam, Thailand, Taiwan and the Philippines, you would expect there not a drop in activity during the overnight hours in Asia. This doesn’t seem to be the case.

Final Verdict

iDateAsia.com is definitely worth the signing up to and having a look around.

It’s easy and quick to register. You receive only 2 email that you use to verify your account and they never spam your inbox after that.

The profiles are legitimate and verified, so you know that you are corresponding with real people.

There are hundreds and hundreds of ladies to browse from 4 different South East Asian countries.

It’s free to perform many actions on the site. You send emails for free using the points you receive for signing up, and you given free vouchers for several different live chatting sessions.

There’s really nothing to lose from siging up to iDateAsia.com. I recommend signing up for a free account, using up all the free bonuses you get, and if you like what they have to offer, then purchase some credits to continue. If you don’t like it, you haven’t invested a dime and you can move onto a different site.

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ChnLove.com Review

ChnLove.com Site LogoChnLove.com has over 15 years of experience (it was established back in 1998) in setting up international dates with Chinese women. In the world of the internet, where dodgy websites come and go all the time, if any organization has been around for as long as ChnLove.com, it says a lot about them.

ChnLove.com is different than a regular dating site, and it’s important to keep that in mind when you’re browsing the site. This is not a dating website where anyone can become a member and set up their own profile. ChnLove.com carefully chooses all the women on the site and assists them in setting up their profiles (i.e., professional photo shoot, videos, etc.).

This can be mistaken for in-authenticity if you expect ChnLove.com to be like other dating sites i.e., POF, OkCupid, eHarmony, etc. It’s a different system, and a different way of meeting people, but it is rather efficient.

On other dating sites you have to wait for days, sometimes weeks to get replies from women, if they ever reply to you at all. In China, it is a very different society. ChnLove.com has only women who are interested in dating Western men. That means that when you send a message, you get a reply. Period.

Registration

To sign up, all you need to do is provide your name, birthday, nationality and create a password. It’s very easy, simple and quick. On the bottom of the sign up page is says that it only takes 10 seconds to register. I think it took me even less time than that.

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Once you complete the sign up form, you are immediately asked to answer the following 7 questions to help find matches for you:

  1. Does your partner’s weight matter to you?
  2. Are you a passionate kisser?
  3. Do you believe in astrological signs when looking for matches?
  4. Do you think women look better wearing dresses than pants?
  5. Do you have a secret that you’ve never told anyone?
  6. Do you hope for love to develop from friendship?
  7. Do you believe in love at first sight?

I found these questions to be rather vague and it left me confused as to how my answers to those questions would help them select matches for me. But nonetheless, when you finish answering them, you are immediately presented with a list of potential matches whom you will have the option of either checking out their profile, or emailing them right away.

But don’t worry if you don’t find what you’re looking for in that initial list, you have barely begun to scratch the surface. Many more women await you in the ‘Online’ section.

ChnLove.com Online Girls

Email Address Verification

Once you have registered and you’ve entered the site, you will see a banner at the top of the page asking you verify your email address.

The process is fairly standard, just head over to your inbox and open the email they sent you. Click on the link provided and your email address will be verified.

Once you complete this process and return the ChnLove.com, you will be prompted to complete your profile. They claim that having a completed profile gives you 15X more attention on the site.

Completing Your Profile

In order to complete your profile, you need to provide information about such as your height, weight, martial status, your marital status, whether or not you have children, your country, state/province, city and what you’re looking for as far as relationships.

Once you’re done on that page, you are taken to a page where you can describe yourself. You are given the options of writing a description in your own words, or choosing from a list of qualities that you believe describes you best.

As you complete your profile you earn more and more points. Points are the currency used on the site to interact with the women. I will describe the points system a little more later on.

When you have successfully completed your profile, you are instantly rewarded with a voucher for a free chat session. Chatting on ChnLove.com normally requires you to spend credits, which you have to purchase, so getting the voucher is pretty cool. It allows you to test what the site has to offer without having to invest any money into it.

Ladies’ Profiles

The most striking thing about every lady’s profile on ChnLove.com is the stunning quality of their profile pictures. Every picture is professionally taken, in fact, when you click on them, you will see that every picture actually has a ChnLove.com watermark on it. That is because each and every woman on the website gets a professional photo shoot by ChnLove.com. It is a requirement of being on the site.

But the fact that every single picture of every single profile is professionally taken is not the only reason why the girls look so good. It is immediately obvious to anybody that all the girl on this site are absolutely gorgeous, and that they would be with or without professional photography. They all have similar body types and height. I guess they have certain requirements for the ladies who can participate in the site.

ChnLove.com Jessica's Profile Pictures

Below the pictures section, there is some personal information about the woman and a description in English (most likely translated since most profiles have English proficiency listed as either: learning or fair). The descriptions don’t strike me as especially personal or authentic though. They are fairly generic and all resemble each other.

And finally at the bottom of each girl’s profile is a list of interests.

From every girl’s profile, you have to the option to start a chat, send a email, send a virtual gift, start a call or favorite her.

Credits and Points System

The site operates on a system of credits and points. In order to perform any action on the site other than just browsing profiles, you have to use up your points or credits.

Points are free and you receive them when you register, complete your profile, etc. Points can be used to send emails to the girls you’re interested in, and receive a reply.

For everything else, you need to use credits. Credits are not free and they can be purchased on the site in different bundles. The breakdown of the bundles goes like this:

  • 3 credits: $21
  • 8 credits: $52
  • 16 credits: $96
  • 32 credits: $179
  • 60 credits: $299
  • 100 credits: $399

To give you an idea of how much credits you need to specific actions, you need:

  • 0.5 credits/5 minutes to chat
  • 0.3 credits for each voice message sent
  • 1.5 credits for each photo sent or received
  • 2 credits to make a call
  • 2.5 credits to view a video made by a one of the ladies

Making a Call

Making a call to a lady is perhaps the best way to genuinely find out more about her personality. Often times though, the call has to be made with a translator. Since 3 people need to be involved in the call, it requires some planning. Especially given the time zone difference between China and North America.

You are encouraged to make an appointment for a call at least 24 hours in advance. The site can help you figure out the time zone difference.

Sketchy Parts

That fact that chatting on the site requires 0.1 credits per minute, essentially means that you pay a certain dollar amount per minute for this feature. This means that there has to be someone on the other end chatting back with you at all times, otherwise you’d be paying for nothing and nobody would do it. So how likely is it that its the girl in the profile that you’re talking to? Unless the girls are employed by ChnLove.com and paid to reply to messages instantly, it’s difficult to image how they could be effective at chatting. What if they have 10 men messaging them at the same time? What if they have 20… My guess is that you’re chatting with someone overseas in something that’s the equivalent of a call center.

Every few minutes, a new notification will pop up that says that a girl is trying to start a chat with you. The notifications include a picture of the women, and a one-liner like:

  • Wanna see how long my legs are?
  • Can I be your boss?
  • It can be really hard right?
  • Are u busy with imaging what’under my tight skirt
  • y u wear a mask?
  • You have a very long leg… I love it
  • don’t you think i am too tall?

And other random things like that. The messages seem to be very deliberately written in poor/broken English with carefully placed typos.

Nothing about theses notifications or messages seem authentic. They are at the strangest lines imaginable for someone trying to initiate a conversation with you, and they start appearing as soon as you’ve registered for the site.

It seems to me that these notifications are automated to pop up in order to entice you to pay for live chat by the fact that there are very beautiful woman’s pictures next to the messages.

My Final Conclusion

If you like Chinese women (and if you’re reading this, I assume you do), ChnLove.com has hands down, the most beautiful Chinese women on the internet. There simply seems to be no end to how many drop dead gorgeous Chinese woman for you to get to know.

The site is absolutely free to join and literally only takes 10 seconds (or less). My recommendation is to sign up and automatically get 10 free points. Then complete your profile and gain an additional 15 points + a voucher for a free chat session.

Using your 25 points and free chat, you are able to talk to a few girls and test out of the site without dropping a dime. At that point, if you like what you see, you can proceed to purchase some credits, or you can just move on to a different site.

But you don’t lose anything to test it out!

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